Monday, December 12, 2011

Better Than

Over the past six months, I have learned a lot. One of the things that I am learning is that sometimes, when God says "no"  - it is because He has something much better in mind than what you asked for. Case in point....

When I heard the White Swan was closed for renovations, I was very disappointed (to say the least). There was a fair amount of whining and gnashing of teeth with my agency about where I would be staying in Guangzhou. You see, this trip is hard for me - emotional as I integrate a new child into our family and as I am separated from my husband. So where I stay helps to sooth those anxieties. I know the White Swan. I am comfortable there. It is a nice hotel. I was not happy that I would have to adjust to somewhere new.

Until I walked into the lobby of our hotel and saw this


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Nice tree - in an even nicer lobby.

Got off the elevator on my floor and there was this...


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A nice touch of serenity.

The rooms are huge - and they are actually two room suites, with a large marble tub and sitting area and all sorts of nice amenities! Both inside and outside in the lovely "Back Garden"







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Way nicer that the White Swan! A lot of fussing on my part - for nothing.

The flight over was fine - I was able to sleep for about 8 hours and hopefully at the right times to mitigate the jet lag. The best part, however, was when I came though customs
and Elvin was waiting for me! Elvin is legendary among CWA families. He was literally a God sent answer to prayer on our trip for Katie, and has a true gift in working with our kids who are in such a hard place when they come to us. I had asked for him, but was told he would not be available as his wife is expecting a baby later this month. I had resigned myself to having a different guide, yet God provided who I needed to help me through these ext tough few days. 

I am awed and humbled by the way God continues to provide for this trip.






12 comments:

  1. God is good, Karen. All the time. And it's great to hear that you have arrived safely and settled in.

    Please tell Elvin that the Hendersons say "hello"!

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  2. So excited for you to meet Cami tomorrow!!! I will be praying tonight and I will have the whole peanut gang pray in the morning (when they wake up). Another blogger/friend was just at this hotel too and it looked great. I am glad you feel good there.

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  3. Tell Elvin we said hello! Praising God ...who always provides. Praying for your journey! Love, Melissa

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  4. Karen, you are in our thoughts and prayers! Your hotel looks wonderful & so glad to hear about your guide!!
    Lots of love from Michelle, David, & Ryan

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  5. Hi Karen,
    The hotel looks great! And after staying at the White Swan last year, I can tell you it NEEDS remodeling!!
    So glad you slept on the plane over...I can never do that, and the lack of sleep takes its toll.
    I am so excited for you and Cami Ai Liu!! Enjoy your time in Guangzhou. I am with you in spirit and prayers
    God bless you and your family!
    Lots of love and big hugs,
    Debi Strong

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  6. Karen I am so glad you have Elvin! We had him for both Karys and Zane. I know a lot of families have shared their faith with Elvin, maybe if he hears what amazing things God has done in your adoption it will make him think more about becoming a Christian...Just a little "Radical" plug here! :-)

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  7. What a blessing to have Elvin there with you!!! He was fabulous to us when forms we had been told were correct were not and we had to fax them to U.S. for Darryl's signature in the middle of the night.........praying, praying, praying for you!

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  8. We are all thinking of you and cami, have a safe, wonderful trip with the newest addition to your beautiful family!

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  9. Karen,

    I cried reading your post!! I am so glad that you arrived safely and that your hotel exceeded your expectations and that ELVIN is your guide..and he is going to be a DADDY!!!!!! Please tell him the Perry's send their love and are so very happy for him and his wife!!!!

    We are praying for you and your sweet Cami..and your precious family at home waiting for you both to return!!! We love you!!! Blessings to you my sweet friend as you prepare to meet your precious girl!!! :)

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  10. Oh, God is so good. Your hotel looks beautiful and you got ELVIN! Tell him that Wenxin's family says Hi!

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  11. We loved the Garden when we were there earlier this year...it's so very nice.

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  12. We loved Elvin too! I can just picture the relief you felt seeing his face! You are so beloved by God, He's got this!

    Blessings,
    Jamie Ashton

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